what if u have a brother who doesnt care abt the family, and thinks tht the whole family is against him?
Respect is both way. if u din pay or give anything, how can u expect the same returns? they are ur parents. old and still worrying if you have eaten dinner, shd save some food for u or not. worry tht u smoke too much, worry tht u overspend, worry that u r mixing with the wrong company? or did u just resigned, again. and u r 29 this yr. u say they are treating u like a 12 yr old. u knw y? becoz u r behaving like one.
did u ever greet ur pa when u come home? r u concerned if ur mum is sick? wat did u do to show ur concern? u totally treat this place as ur inn. only show up when u need food and place to sleep.
u say u dun need us. u dun fking care abt this family. then shift. U R TOTALLY DEPENDENT ON US! n u owe it to mum who's the only one stil holding on to you now.
it is both ways. it's how much they hope u become a better man that they are equally disappointed that it doesnt turn out that way. we r running out of strength and concerns for u. but no one has reali asked anything of u. y r u always on defensive mode? when is it that u need help and got shutted u out?
wake up. it is a matter of perspective. and u've always chose to see it fr the other side.
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